Welcome to our site. It has been created to share a bit of our lives with family, friends and whoever else happens to be reading this. We don’t get online much and are finding it a bit awkward learning how to navigate and although it’s intimidating, we may have something worth sharing with people. It’s difficult to share the subtleties of life on a showy web page but hopefully some beauty is relayed.

We live in a tipi. I share this first because it is something that sets us apart from most people we know. Full time, year round, my husband Ande and I and our two children, Rowan age 2 and Isla age 8 months. This is only my forth winter, my husband’s sixteenth or something. I learned from him, who came from living in a tipi community in South Wales. I’ll be honest, it’s been difficult until this last year, well, until Isla was born. Up until then we had been living in our tipi in town in people’s backyards and at camp grounds. And through a series of magical events I find myself writing at home out in a meadow in the cascade siskiyou national monument, now in the proper context.
At the peak of this last summer we were living with 16 people in the woods, many of them children, but as winter approached people packed their things and headed somewhere warmer.
We were sad to see people go, as we hope to someday find folk who are inspired to live this way year round. I appreciated what Ande had to say about this, that the winter can’t sustain the summer life, that there’s an inherent contraction and slowing down. Before too much snow fell, we moved down a bit in elevation to where we are now, along Carter Creek. Gratefully, we live here with one other family. Six tipis all together plus our bedouin style tent shop. My husband and I make tipis as our livelihood. We are proud of the treadle-powered industrial sewing machine. You can check out our website at www.RogueDwellings.com
It’s about living with the elements and having an intimate relationship with them. I was asked by a townie friend if I find any time while mothering two young children for a “spiritual practice”. The question truly baffled me. I live around an open fire and I sleep on the earth. I breath fresh clean air and drink spring water gathered from up the hill. I fetch washing water from the creek and I wash dishes in sunshine, under rainbows and in feet of snow. Do I find time for a spiritual practice? I ended up saying I didn’t find much time for yoga and sitting if that’s what she meant.
It’s about personal responsibility and integrity. About living a dynamic and fully alive life. About cultivating a deep respectful relationship witht the world around me. It’s for something much greater than me. It’s for my children and the many more generations to come.
I want to live an epic life.
My husband and I have a strong vision. It is becoming clearer as time passes. I hope that through this site our vision can be shared with many and inspire those who want to live simply and respectfully. We are comitted to this way of living and pray that we will find others who feel the same.
Kayla

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February 6, 2009 at 8:33 pm
Karen
So beautiful to see your precious family here. Tipi life is a good life, living close to the earth and leaving only the smallest gentle footprint. You are an inspiration and a blessing to your family, friends, present & future generations who can see how sweet life can be living in harmony with the Mother, taking so little and giving so much.
Thank you for sharing with the world!
Blessings of health, peace and love!
Karen & Antonio
February 12, 2009 at 7:36 am
Leslie
Kayla and Ande,
I loved reading about how you are living your life and how you love it. Shouldn’t all of our life be a living spiritual practise? We have gotten away from seeing everything we do as our life prayer. It sounds like this is very real for you.
Whether we live close to the earth as you do or in suburbia, there is the opportunity to notice, be mindful, and surrender in this life. I’m writing you from my fancy tent with the wood stove warming our bones and soup simmering on our center fire (assisted by propane on a JennAir!). I’m watching out the window as the red-tail hawks begin their mating dance and noticing the bluebirds checking out the local bird apartments that are provided for them on our property. How nice to share the wonder with you as we sit under the same full moon… Love, Leslie
February 13, 2009 at 9:44 am
grandmaw peggy
Larry and I just finished reading and watching my little family thank you for sharing love you lots Grandma Peggy and Grandpa Larry
February 13, 2009 at 6:49 pm
Ros Briagha
How amazing to see this, and what a great follow on to the Valley! We have had snow too, a week of 6 inches of snow left us all feeling cut off from the dirty engine -run world, excellent. I am making tipis too, and my dear friend Bel is helping me by painting extraordinary dragons on them. This present financial crisis, where finally everyone gets to know what Sustainable really means, is good for us and the environment. I am living in my house right now, but yearn to be on the land, where every action is spiritual, as you point out. A lot of my friends are going for straw bale round houses, slightly more sensible in welsh winter time….
lots of love to you Ande, and to your lovely wife, and kids, two now, farout!
February 22, 2009 at 2:11 am
Erin Wilkey
Kayla and Ande and babies,
so so lovely to read your words and watch that sweet video. of course every moment of our life is a spiritual pracitce, and thank you for the reminder kayla. your vision together is so clear and strong and it is making manifest. i love your beautiful and very alive life and for living in alignment with your integretiy. so many blessings on your family and your journey together. i look forward to reading your blog! much love to all of you, erin
February 26, 2009 at 2:32 pm
derek heule
kayla! i am soooo stoked to see these pictures and hear about what an incredible life you live! i must admit, living in the city causes me to constantly long for the type of life you now live. you have a beautiful family as well! so happy for you old friend.
March 1, 2009 at 12:12 pm
Jack Falls-Rock
hey its good to see the both of you in your very nice place for all your family,
;0
March 3, 2009 at 1:14 am
oshana
thanks for sharing ~ when i was younger i lived in a tipi for many seasons of my life, and with two children as well! it is such a good way to live, being so close to our teacher guardian provider mother earth as she nurtures our lives and deepens our spiritual growth beyond the limits of what these words can express…this last weekend we sat up in a prayer ceremony where the tipi was battered by gale force winds, but it stood tight and kept us warm through the stormy night ~
and yes, i still play the whistle, and my 7 year old granddaughter is learning from me as well…
we would like to come visit you some time!
blessings to all,
grandma o ~
oshana
March 5, 2009 at 4:24 am
Amy (Chop's mom)
A beautiful day would start with waking with the sun and seeing nature – unobscured – in all of it’s glory.
You make it seem so simple, so natural that I can think of nothing else…
March 10, 2009 at 1:38 am
britt
beautiful home and beautiful family. cant ask for more. thanks for sharing!
April 21, 2009 at 2:22 pm
Dan
WE share the same dream and I am inspired to see you living it. We have four kids, 6, 4, 2, 3-months.
The problem is land, for us. Where do you live? Finding a place to live this way, without seeking a fortune to do it, has been problematic. It is contrary to my morals to seek money, yet it seems impossible to live outside of town without gaining a good deal of it first. We have the house (turtle tuff) and plan on buying a tipi also to live in, but alas, where to put one? Especially since we have a general ‘area’ we’d like to do it (four corners-ish). HEy, thanks for your blog, i’ll stop by often. Dan
December 20, 2009 at 6:33 am
Maggie
Dan,
So, land is the problem, is it? It takes a fortune? There are plenty of solutions that are actually FREE, although not necessarily easy. The first and most common is to take advantage of the National Forest in your area. I’m not an expert, but have been involved in that before. I believe every state has at least one National Forest. Camping there primitive (meaning not in a campground facility) is completely free. The catch is that (at least the last time I was current on the rules) you have to move your campsite every 14 days. Not sure how far you have to move it, but that is (or at least was) the rule on National Forest camping, and you would likely be surprised how many people you will meet there that also live in the forest full time.
Another option is intentional communities. Any internet search of that term should lead to a wealth of resources and an index of all existing and/or currently forming intentional communities. There are really many different types, so if at first you find hippie communes or vegetarian yoga communes or religious communes and you’re not interested in any of those, keep looking, because there are so many different types, it’s truly amazing. Not all intentional communities are true communes in the full income-sharing sense that was once the meaning of the word, so search for one you’re comfortable with, do your research and your homework, and you just may find a free home where you don’t have to move your camp at all, and the days of the bi-weekly tear-down and set-up will be a distant dream;)
A third option is to make friends with people who have land. It can take a long time. I sought out farm friends and offered free farm labor, which eventually earned me occasional camping privileges, which later led to my being offered an acre of my own. It took over 15 years, but I started young and it was worth the investment. In those intervening years I sometimes lived in National Forests and sometimes in more traditional (and costly) abodes. I made many friends who live in the forests full time and prefer to do so for a number of reasons. They wouldn’t take an acre of land if someone gave it to them for free;)
My point is, it doesn’t take a lot of money to get started. It does take a lot of determination and a lot of creativity. It’s easy, after a lifetime of being brainwashed by society, to assume that land must cost money and that you have to pay for a place to stay. That’s what THEY want you to think. Don’t be fooled. You can’t divorce yourself from mainstream society if you’re still going around believing in their programming;)
Best of luck to you. I hope some of this proves helpful and inspires you to look outside the box when seeking options. The possibilities are limitless.
April 26, 2009 at 1:48 am
jeromeyhernandez
hey kayla , i am totally impressed by ur video, your way of living is very inspiering!! you have a beutiful family thanks for kepping me updated.
blessings to u and yours
jeromey
May 2, 2009 at 10:20 am
mj
I was thinking of a cabin off the grid… you guys are tougher than I!
May 12, 2009 at 11:02 am
mj
what about lung cancer with the smoke being directly in your teepee?
June 16, 2009 at 12:48 pm
mormonmilkman
MJ, I don’t think its much of an issue. Reason being, there is no wind, if you keep a good draft, the smoke goes straight up and out.
I’ll risk lung cancer in an enjoyable trade for a unchained rich life!
August 5, 2009 at 10:21 am
Mike
Hey there tipi folk,
Thank you so very much for all of your wonderful help and hospitality during my difficult and sudden transition. I really can’t say it enough. Your emotional and practical support was of a level that is rarely known in our society of origin, even amongst friends who have known each other much longer than we have. It was quite moving to see the pictures and videos of ya’ll, especially of the kids. I will be back. I really will.
Be well.
August 19, 2009 at 2:29 am
Brittany
Hello there Kayla and Ande~ I look fondly back on the times when you both were in my life regularly. It is so wonderful to see the family you have created and the life you are living. I am overdue for a visit for I would love for you to meet Kirpal and Emma and see Galen. Our families’ path has led us to rehabilitating land , alternative energy and goat cheese! Missing you and sending a big hug, love Brittany
October 26, 2009 at 1:28 pm
Heidi Moore
Hi,
My partner and I and our eleven month old are trying to find a way to buy a peice of land and a Yurt to live in. Currently we have nothing. I am from Alaska he is from Mexico.
Would you consider having other families living with you?
If so do you have any suggestions on how we could make a living out there, being that you have your tipi business and all, you have an income. You probably don’t need extra help either. I heard of you from a musician while in Ashland. I am now back in Portland where we live, longing to get out to nature.
Please respond.
Heidi
hdmoore68@gmail.com
503.236-0012
January 23, 2010 at 2:51 am
Jake Levi
Well done on cutting out of the rat race, more power to you,
I will be traveling around a lot this year with my lodge, camping and at some events, archery rondys, pow wows etc,
good that you have found a place to pitch your camp. I have always thought that the Cascades could be great for it, maybe one of these days I will see first hand,
enjoy, be well and be blessed,
jake