Welcome to our site. It has been created to share a bit of our lives with family, friends and whoever else happens to be reading this. We don’t get online much and are finding it a bit awkward learning how to navigate and although it’s intimidating, we may have something worth sharing with people. It’s difficult to share the subtleties of life on a showy web page but hopefully some beauty is relayed.

We live in a tipi. I share this first because it is something that sets us apart from most people we know. Full time, year round, my husband Ande and I and our two children, Rowan age 2 and Isla age 8 months. This is only my forth winter, my husband’s sixteenth or something. I learned from him, who came from living in a tipi community in South Wales. I’ll be honest, it’s been difficult until this last year, well, until Isla was born. Up until then we had been living in our tipi in town in people’s backyards and at camp grounds. And through a series of magical events I find myself writing at home out in a meadow in the cascade siskiyou national monument, now in the proper context.
At the peak of this last summer we were living with 16 people in the woods, many of them children, but as winter approached people packed their things and headed somewhere warmer.
We were sad to see people go, as we hope to someday find folk who are inspired to live this way year round. I appreciated what Ande had to say about this, that the winter can’t sustain the summer life, that there’s an inherent contraction and slowing down. Before too much snow fell, we moved down a bit in elevation to where we are now, along Carter Creek. Gratefully, we live here with one other family. Six tipis all together plus our bedouin style tent shop. My husband and I make tipis as our livelihood. We are proud of the treadle-powered industrial sewing machine. You can check out our website at www.RogueDwellings.com
It’s about living with the elements and having an intimate relationship with them. I was asked by a townie friend if I find any time while mothering two young children for a “spiritual practice”. The question truly baffled me. I live around an open fire and I sleep on the earth. I breath fresh clean air and drink spring water gathered from up the hill. I fetch washing water from the creek and I wash dishes in sunshine, under rainbows and in feet of snow. Do I find time for a spiritual practice? I ended up saying I didn’t find much time for yoga and sitting if that’s what she meant.
It’s about personal responsibility and integrity. About living a dynamic and fully alive life. About cultivating a deep respectful relationship witht the world around me. It’s for something much greater than me. It’s for my children and the many more generations to come.
I want to live an epic life.
My husband and I have a strong vision. It is becoming clearer as time passes. I hope that through this site our vision can be shared with many and inspire those who want to live simply and respectfully. We are comitted to this way of living and pray that we will find others who feel the same.
Kayla

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February 6, 2009 at 8:33 pm
Karen
So beautiful to see your precious family here. Tipi life is a good life, living close to the earth and leaving only the smallest gentle footprint. You are an inspiration and a blessing to your family, friends, present & future generations who can see how sweet life can be living in harmony with the Mother, taking so little and giving so much.
Thank you for sharing with the world!
Blessings of health, peace and love!
Karen & Antonio
February 12, 2009 at 7:36 am
Leslie
Kayla and Ande,
I loved reading about how you are living your life and how you love it. Shouldn’t all of our life be a living spiritual practise? We have gotten away from seeing everything we do as our life prayer. It sounds like this is very real for you.
Whether we live close to the earth as you do or in suburbia, there is the opportunity to notice, be mindful, and surrender in this life. I’m writing you from my fancy tent with the wood stove warming our bones and soup simmering on our center fire (assisted by propane on a JennAir!). I’m watching out the window as the red-tail hawks begin their mating dance and noticing the bluebirds checking out the local bird apartments that are provided for them on our property. How nice to share the wonder with you as we sit under the same full moon… Love, Leslie
February 13, 2009 at 9:44 am
grandmaw peggy
Larry and I just finished reading and watching my little family thank you for sharing love you lots Grandma Peggy and Grandpa Larry
February 13, 2009 at 6:49 pm
Ros Briagha
How amazing to see this, and what a great follow on to the Valley! We have had snow too, a week of 6 inches of snow left us all feeling cut off from the dirty engine -run world, excellent. I am making tipis too, and my dear friend Bel is helping me by painting extraordinary dragons on them. This present financial crisis, where finally everyone gets to know what Sustainable really means, is good for us and the environment. I am living in my house right now, but yearn to be on the land, where every action is spiritual, as you point out. A lot of my friends are going for straw bale round houses, slightly more sensible in welsh winter time….
lots of love to you Ande, and to your lovely wife, and kids, two now, farout!
February 22, 2009 at 2:11 am
Erin Wilkey
Kayla and Ande and babies,
so so lovely to read your words and watch that sweet video. of course every moment of our life is a spiritual pracitce, and thank you for the reminder kayla. your vision together is so clear and strong and it is making manifest. i love your beautiful and very alive life and for living in alignment with your integretiy. so many blessings on your family and your journey together. i look forward to reading your blog! much love to all of you, erin
February 26, 2009 at 2:32 pm
derek heule
kayla! i am soooo stoked to see these pictures and hear about what an incredible life you live! i must admit, living in the city causes me to constantly long for the type of life you now live. you have a beautiful family as well! so happy for you old friend.
March 1, 2009 at 12:12 pm
Jack Falls-Rock
hey its good to see the both of you in your very nice place for all your family,
;0
March 3, 2009 at 1:14 am
oshana
thanks for sharing ~ when i was younger i lived in a tipi for many seasons of my life, and with two children as well! it is such a good way to live, being so close to our teacher guardian provider mother earth as she nurtures our lives and deepens our spiritual growth beyond the limits of what these words can express…this last weekend we sat up in a prayer ceremony where the tipi was battered by gale force winds, but it stood tight and kept us warm through the stormy night ~
and yes, i still play the whistle, and my 7 year old granddaughter is learning from me as well…
we would like to come visit you some time!
blessings to all,
grandma o ~
oshana
March 5, 2009 at 4:24 am
Amy (Chop's mom)
A beautiful day would start with waking with the sun and seeing nature – unobscured – in all of it’s glory.
You make it seem so simple, so natural that I can think of nothing else…
March 10, 2009 at 1:38 am
britt
beautiful home and beautiful family. cant ask for more. thanks for sharing!
April 21, 2009 at 2:22 pm
Dan
WE share the same dream and I am inspired to see you living it. We have four kids, 6, 4, 2, 3-months.
The problem is land, for us. Where do you live? Finding a place to live this way, without seeking a fortune to do it, has been problematic. It is contrary to my morals to seek money, yet it seems impossible to live outside of town without gaining a good deal of it first. We have the house (turtle tuff) and plan on buying a tipi also to live in, but alas, where to put one? Especially since we have a general ‘area’ we’d like to do it (four corners-ish). HEy, thanks for your blog, i’ll stop by often. Dan
December 20, 2009 at 6:33 am
Maggie
Dan,
So, land is the problem, is it? It takes a fortune? There are plenty of solutions that are actually FREE, although not necessarily easy. The first and most common is to take advantage of the National Forest in your area. I’m not an expert, but have been involved in that before. I believe every state has at least one National Forest. Camping there primitive (meaning not in a campground facility) is completely free. The catch is that (at least the last time I was current on the rules) you have to move your campsite every 14 days. Not sure how far you have to move it, but that is (or at least was) the rule on National Forest camping, and you would likely be surprised how many people you will meet there that also live in the forest full time.
Another option is intentional communities. Any internet search of that term should lead to a wealth of resources and an index of all existing and/or currently forming intentional communities. There are really many different types, so if at first you find hippie communes or vegetarian yoga communes or religious communes and you’re not interested in any of those, keep looking, because there are so many different types, it’s truly amazing. Not all intentional communities are true communes in the full income-sharing sense that was once the meaning of the word, so search for one you’re comfortable with, do your research and your homework, and you just may find a free home where you don’t have to move your camp at all, and the days of the bi-weekly tear-down and set-up will be a distant dream;)
A third option is to make friends with people who have land. It can take a long time. I sought out farm friends and offered free farm labor, which eventually earned me occasional camping privileges, which later led to my being offered an acre of my own. It took over 15 years, but I started young and it was worth the investment. In those intervening years I sometimes lived in National Forests and sometimes in more traditional (and costly) abodes. I made many friends who live in the forests full time and prefer to do so for a number of reasons. They wouldn’t take an acre of land if someone gave it to them for free;)
My point is, it doesn’t take a lot of money to get started. It does take a lot of determination and a lot of creativity. It’s easy, after a lifetime of being brainwashed by society, to assume that land must cost money and that you have to pay for a place to stay. That’s what THEY want you to think. Don’t be fooled. You can’t divorce yourself from mainstream society if you’re still going around believing in their programming;)
Best of luck to you. I hope some of this proves helpful and inspires you to look outside the box when seeking options. The possibilities are limitless.
April 26, 2009 at 1:48 am
jeromeyhernandez
hey kayla , i am totally impressed by ur video, your way of living is very inspiering!! you have a beutiful family thanks for kepping me updated.
blessings to u and yours
jeromey
May 2, 2009 at 10:20 am
mj
I was thinking of a cabin off the grid… you guys are tougher than I!
May 12, 2009 at 11:02 am
mj
what about lung cancer with the smoke being directly in your teepee?
June 16, 2009 at 12:48 pm
mormonmilkman
MJ, I don’t think its much of an issue. Reason being, there is no wind, if you keep a good draft, the smoke goes straight up and out.
I’ll risk lung cancer in an enjoyable trade for a unchained rich life!
August 5, 2009 at 10:21 am
Mike
Hey there tipi folk,
Thank you so very much for all of your wonderful help and hospitality during my difficult and sudden transition. I really can’t say it enough. Your emotional and practical support was of a level that is rarely known in our society of origin, even amongst friends who have known each other much longer than we have. It was quite moving to see the pictures and videos of ya’ll, especially of the kids. I will be back. I really will.
Be well.
August 19, 2009 at 2:29 am
Brittany
Hello there Kayla and Ande~ I look fondly back on the times when you both were in my life regularly. It is so wonderful to see the family you have created and the life you are living. I am overdue for a visit for I would love for you to meet Kirpal and Emma and see Galen. Our families’ path has led us to rehabilitating land , alternative energy and goat cheese! Missing you and sending a big hug, love Brittany
October 26, 2009 at 1:28 pm
Heidi Moore
Hi,
My partner and I and our eleven month old are trying to find a way to buy a peice of land and a Yurt to live in. Currently we have nothing. I am from Alaska he is from Mexico.
Would you consider having other families living with you?
If so do you have any suggestions on how we could make a living out there, being that you have your tipi business and all, you have an income. You probably don’t need extra help either. I heard of you from a musician while in Ashland. I am now back in Portland where we live, longing to get out to nature.
Please respond.
Heidi
hdmoore68@gmail.com
503.236-0012
January 23, 2010 at 2:51 am
Jake Levi
Well done on cutting out of the rat race, more power to you,
I will be traveling around a lot this year with my lodge, camping and at some events, archery rondys, pow wows etc,
good that you have found a place to pitch your camp. I have always thought that the Cascades could be great for it, maybe one of these days I will see first hand,
enjoy, be well and be blessed,
jake
March 11, 2010 at 9:13 am
james
Hi from Maine. We live in a dome and just bought a tipi. Please write to say hi. We’re a family in Maine.
September 4, 2010 at 5:27 am
James
Hello once more. Chiming in from middle Maine. We have the 24′ tipi now. hurdygurdy1@gmail.com All is well. It’s late summer. I never bought the fish eye s far, but all is well and still photographing our tipi (canvas) during this first year. We’ll be moving everything in one week if anyone is traveling and wants to be close by. Think way-northern New England. We’re 10 children, a 40′ dome, and vegan… Jazz player (me) and a little bit trying towards photography, too (nikon).
September 4, 2010 at 5:31 am
James
fish eye s meant nikon’s 16mm lens, or fish-eye lens. I don’t always type too well. I felt that this needs to accompany our tipi, photographically.
So far our tipi is out in direct sun. We are making more plans to move things around on the 3 acres we have.
March 28, 2010 at 3:44 am
Jake Levi
I would like to hear how you folks prepare for and handle winter living in your
lodge. I know that tens of thousands of NA Indians did it, but I dont know many Indians living in Tipis at all now let alone through the winter.
Good luck, have a beautiful spring and enjoy,
jake
April 6, 2010 at 9:16 am
Amy
Ever since my visit I can’t wait to return. Lots to keep me busy getting ready, but I just wish I was done with this part so I can focus on living my life in the beautiful forest.
See you all soon!
June 18, 2010 at 11:23 am
Julie Harrell
Hi, it’s so great to see what you are doing on the other side of the pond. Here in the states many of us have tipis on our land so that we can share that lifestyle. My daughter sits in our tipi right now, late at night, with her girlfriend, talking and playing music. You are doing good work. Blessings, om shanti. Jules
August 14, 2010 at 6:54 pm
John
Interesting life..I’m now planning to do the same thing you’re doing, but at sea..the ocean. You ever heard of seasteading? A seafaring / seateading lifestyle..You might like it, you can get more info here at my website http://www.aquarianet.org. I also have a listing at http://directory.ic.org/22919/Aquaria (at the intentonal community fellowship website)
You’re the type of persons that would make good seasteaders / seafarers..
August 31, 2010 at 3:33 am
rick
do you have a problem with snakes. i have lived off grid in tents but not a tipi have always wanted a tipi to live in. i have been reading your site over and over and it sounds great there. you are living the true life bless each and everyone of you. i feel like i know you already. your friend rick.
September 17, 2010 at 11:01 am
Bonnie
Wow…. inspiring!
I’ve spent a lot of time in tipis, mostly at Rainbow gatherings in rural Australia, and love the idea of living in one full time!
Thank you so much for sharing….
We all appreciate it!
October 30, 2010 at 6:16 am
Krista Ritter
Kayla,
Wow…..I am truly blown away. Looking back at the 6th grade, my best friend, the girl who ‘had it all,’ I never thought in a million years that you would be living the truly incredible, extraordinary life you now live. I am so inspired by your strength, dedication, and TRUE beauty. I often fantasize about living the life you live. My family and I (me, my husband, and 4 children) are now living in Dallas, TX, in a concrete jungle, surrounded and bombarded by technology, media, and materialism. Everything about it is chaotic and superficial. You have grown into such an amazing woman. Your children are beyond beautiful, and after looking at all the pics your mom has on her facebook, they look so healthy and happy. You all look so happy!!! You are living the true meaning of life, and I envy you for that. No, I don’t have to live in a tipi in the woods to understand the true meaning of life, but as I go through life searching for that something that makes my soul happy, I think about you, and how I bet you hold a valuable secret to complete happiness and bliss. It makes me emotional to think about the lessons your children are learning and will learn throughout their lives. Even if they decide to stray from the “tipi life” someday, they will always and forever have a much greater appreciation and whole-hearted love for the Earth, and for family. I would love, love, love to come spend some time with you and your family next time I’m in Oregon. I would be so honored to learn from you, and for your babies to show my babies how to live such a rich, entertaining life that doesn’t involve tv or video games. I’m proud of you Kayla, and I love you so much for doing everything that you’re doing. I’ll let you or your mom know when I will be making a trip up there……I want to make a reservation to stay in your guest tipi for a week or two ;o)
Much love,
Krista
January 23, 2011 at 4:36 pm
pixie
oooh, i fantasize! such beautiful simplicity and elements. we have two and a half acres in central california and i’d love to know if you have a used tipi for me to practice with. i’ll go back to roguedwelling and see if you have any for sale.
bless! and gratitude for the teachings,
pixie
March 22, 2011 at 11:43 am
Curtis and Jessica
Simply amazing… We are delighted to find out that you guys actually live in a Tipi… my wife Jessica and myself just moved to Coos Bay Oregone from Pocatello Idaho where we lived for four months in a Tipi, our tipi is 18′ wide, all weather canvas, with an indian riding a horse chasing a herd of bison, crows flying all over it, many mountain at the base, clouds at the top, a bison skull shield on the door and a dance shield-plains shield-ceremonial shield on the inside nine foot high liner… Very awesome to be living this way, it was our dream fulfilled to live in a tipi and against all odds we made it possible for four months. We now live by the ocean as we fulfill another dream… you can watch our entire Tipi setting up video on YouTube.com under CurtisLostInTheWoods just look around my channel and find the video, we also have a video where boy scouts visited us in the Tipi and where our family came and visited us on thanksgiving… this is all very cool and if we were not staring at the ocean and enjoying our two dogs we would pack up and come live with you guys… your children are adorable… Life is an adventure… my photography website is under maintenance right, sorry about that, but check us out on youtube… we most likely will contact you maybe this coming summer so we can come and visit and meet you all… It is a very good things what you are doing… thanks Curtis and Jessica fellow Tipi lovers
July 18, 2011 at 11:39 am
Johnny
Lovely words and philosophy. I dream of living in a tipi and plan to purchase one ASAP. Thanks for the inspiration!
August 31, 2011 at 6:07 am
Magpie
You are truely inspiring. I would be interested in talking with you and learning the ways. Magpiemeow@yahoo.com
November 20, 2011 at 10:58 pm
james warren
We have a Tipi and like staying in it not many to talk to about the do and don’t s.